No two love stories are the same—and your engagement ring shouldn’t be either. The toi et moi engagement rings, with its romantic dual-stone design, is one of the most meaningful and customizable styles available today. From the stones you choose to the finer design details, personalizing your ring is about telling your story through every element.
At KRK Jewels, we believe your engagement ring should feel as unique as the bond you share. So, whether you’re creating a timeless heirloom or a modern statement piece, here’s your step-by-step guide to personalizing a Toi et Moi ring that feels authentically yours.
1. Start With the Meaning
Before you even think about gemstones or metals, start with your inspiration. The Toi et Moi design is symbolic by nature—representing you and your partner coming together in harmony. Think about how you want that message to come through:
Do you want to celebrate your differences? Choose contrasting stones.
Want to highlight unity? Go with matching cuts in similar tones.
Have a shared memory or a date to commemorate? Add an engraved detail or meaningful stone.
Start with what matters to you, and build from there.
2. Pick Your Gemstone Pairing
The most exciting part of the design process is choosing your gemstones. Here’s where your personality and story really shine:
✦ Classic & Elegant:
Diamond + Diamond (different cuts or sizes)
Diamond + Emerald (sophisticated and bold)
✦ Personal & Symbolic:
Birthstones of each partner
Favorite colors or gemstones tied to family heritage
✦ Modern & Unique:
Moissanite + Sapphire
Colored gemstones like morganite, spinel, or aquamarine
At KRK Jewels, we offer natural, lab-grown, and ethical gemstone options—so your ring reflects both your values and your vision.
3. Choose Your Stone Shapes
The combination of stone shapes can completely change the vibe of your ring. Want drama? Go for contrasting cuts like emerald and pear. Love symmetry? Try round and cushion cuts.
Popular pairings include:
Oval + Pear
Emerald + Round
Marquise + Cushion
Heart + Princess
This is your chance to reflect your style—whether it’s sleek and modern or soft and romantic.
4. Select Your Metal & Band Style
Your choice of metal can elevate the entire look of your ring. Here’s a quick guide:
Yellow Gold: Warm, timeless, and traditional
White Gold: Sleek and modern
Rose Gold: Romantic and feminine
Platinum: Durable and luxurious
Next, consider the band design. Do you want a sleek minimalist band, a twisted or bypass style, or one with pavé diamonds? You can even choose asymmetrical settings to emphasize contrast and creativity.
5. Add Personal Details
This is where your ring becomes a true keepsake. A few ways to make it extra personal:
Engravings: Include initials, dates, coordinates, or a short quote inside the band.
Hidden Gemstones: Add a tiny birthstone or secret diamond inside the band for a special surprise.
Matching Bands: Design complementary wedding bands that reflect your Toi et Moi theme.
Our team at KRK Jewels works with you one-on-one to bring these meaningful touches to life, ensuring your ring tells your story, not anyone else’s.
6. Work With a Trusted Jeweler
At KRK Jewels, custom ring design is a collaborative process. From sketch to final sparkle, we guide you through every decision with expert craftsmanship, ethical sourcing, and an eye for detail.
You’ll receive:
A one-on-one consultation with our design team
3D previews and design mockups
Handcrafted quality with certified stones
A piece that’s as durable as it is meaningful
Your Love, Your Design, Your Forever Ring
A Toi et Moi ring is more than jewelry—it’s a reflection of your journey together. And with a little creativity and care, you can design something that’s not only stunning but unmistakably yours.
Ready to begin your custom design journey?
KRK Jewels is here to help you turn two stones into one unforgettable story.